The way we make du’ā matters. Confidence in du’ā comes from deep trust in Allah’s mercy, knowing He hears and answers in the best way. Arrogance, on the other hand, comes from entitlement—demanding rather than submitting. The key is to ask with certainty while remaining humble, trusting that Allah’s wisdom is greater than our desires. True du’ā is not just about receiving what we ask for, but about drawing closer to Allah in the process.

The essence of being a Muslim is to surrender to Allah, yet this is often our greatest struggle. We resist because of our desire for control, fear of the unknown, attachments to dunya, and the whispers of Shayṭān. But surrendering to Allah is not a loss—it is the key to peace, ease, and true freedom. When we trust in His plan, we are no longer burdened by anxiety or disappointment. Instead, we find comfort in knowing that His wisdom is always greater than our understanding. The more we let go and submit to Him, the more we gain—divine guidance, contentment, and a heart at peace.

There is a difference between reading du’ās and making du’ā. True du’ā is not just about reciting memorised words; it is about pouring your heart out to Allah with sincerity and conviction. While reading the beautiful supplications from the Qur’ān and Sunnah holds immense value, it is equally important to feel the meanings, reflect deeply, and call upon Allah in your own words. The power of du’ā lies not in eloquence, but in sincerity—Allah does not require perfect phrases, only a heart that truly seeks Him. When you stop reading du’ās and start making them, you will experience a profound shift in your connection with Allah.

Connecting with Allah doesn't require extensive worship or unattainable devotion. Instead, a single sincere moment is enough to transform everything. It's about sincerity, not quantity—whether it's a tear shed in humility, a heartfelt du’ā, or a genuine act of repentance. Examples include the man forgiven for his past crimes and Prophet Yunus, who was saved with a sincere plea. Allah is always near, ready to accept you no matter your state. One sincere moment with Him can change everything, as He responds to those who genuinely call upon Him.

Prioritise Allah’s satisfaction over seeking approval from others. While it's natural to desire acceptance, focusing too much on people's opinions can distract from what truly matters: Allah’s pleasure. People’s approval is fickle and ever-changing, but Allah values the sincerity of your efforts and struggles. The Prophet ﷺ taught that seeking Allah’s pleasure, even at the cost of others’ disapproval, brings true contentment and peace. Ultimately, success lies in being loved by Allah, whose love is eternal, rather than being accepted by everyone. Let your heart find peace in seeking Him, and worldly opinions will become insignificant.

Reclaiming inner peace involves letting go of the things we cannot control, especially the actions and opinions of others. Often, our turmoil stems from allowing others to dictate our emotions, but true peace comes from focusing on ourselves rather than trying to change others. By shifting our attention inward and nurturing our connection with Allah, we can regain our strength and joy. This approach doesn't mean ignoring pain or tolerating abuse; it means establishing healthy boundaries and valuing our dignity. Ultimately, anchoring our hearts in Allah helps us withstand external disturbances and maintain our peace.

The concept of Taqwā involves being aware of Allah in every part of life, not just fearing Him. It means choosing to do the right thing, knowing Allah is always present. Taqwā encourages constant communication with Allah, sharing everything from worries to joys, and trusting Him to ease difficulties. The reward for Taqwā is Allah's closeness; He provides unexpected solutions and support. Taqwā transforms fear into trust and hardship into ease, ensuring we are never alone.

Envy can silently hold back our du’ās. When we question why others receive blessings while we wait, we forget that Allah’s treasures are limitless.

“If all of creation were to ask Me, and I gave everyone what they requested, it would not decrease My kingdom except as a needle decreases the ocean when dipped into it.” (Muslim)

Replace envy with gratitude, make du’ā for others, and trust that what is written for you will reach you at the perfect time.

Many people struggle with du’ā because they feel a disconnect from Allah. The reason? They know about Him, but they don’t truly know Him. Just as we naturally turn to those we trust and love for help, we will only feel comfortable asking Allah when we develop a deep relationship with Him. This is why knowing Allah (Ma‘rifatullah) is the foundation of Islam—it transforms du’ā from a mere request into a heartfelt conversation. Strengthening this connection makes du’ā effortless, fills life with trust and peace, and deepens our love for Allah.

Life’s challenges often feel like setbacks, but when viewed through the lens of Imān, they reveal hidden blessings. Every delay, loss, or hardship carries wisdom—whether it’s Allah protecting you, purifying you, or guiding you toward something better. What may seem like rejection is often redirection, and what feels like a loss may be a form of divine protection. Allah reminds us in the Qur’ān that we may dislike something while it is actually good for us (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:216). Trust in His plan, and you will find Khayr in every moment—even in what you don’t yet understand.

The Qur’ān repeatedly reassures women, emphasising emotional care with phrases like “Do not grieve” and “Do not be sad.” This divine pattern teaches men to be mindful of women’s emotions, treating them with kindness, patience, and understanding. Just as Allah comforts women in the Qur’ān, men should uplift and support the women in their lives. The Prophet ﷺ embodied this by being the best to his wives, showing that true strength lies in gentleness and mercy.

True peace comes from surrendering to Allah, trusting His wisdom, and believing that His plan is far better than our own.

We often hold onto worries and desires, thinking we can control outcomes, but real strength lies in letting go and placing our trust in Allah. He sees the struggles we can’t express, answers in ways beyond our understanding, and always grants what is best—even when it doesn’t align with our expectations.

When we truly believe in His perfect timing and infinite wisdom, we find contentment in His decree and peace in His mercy. Let go, trust Him, and know that He is always taking care of you.

A man in East Africa, struggling with depression, found healing through reciting Salawāt on the Prophet ﷺ. After dedicating a day to reciting, his life transformed, bringing peace, clarity, and blessings. Similarly, I experienced profound healing after my divorce through Salawāt, which guided me to the right people and resources, ultimately leading to blessings and peace.

Deen and dunya are not separate; rather, Islam is the foundation that shapes every part of life. Instead of trying to “balance” between the two, we should focus on integrating our daily actions with the right intentions. Work, relationships, and even rest can be acts of worship when done for Allah’s sake. True success is not about choosing between deen and dunya, but about aligning our entire life with the remembrance of Allah.

One of the conditions for du’ā to be answered is having absolute certainty that Allah will respond. True yaqīn allows you to surrender, knowing that Allah’s timing and plan are always best. When doubt creeps in, it leads to desperation and fear, making it hard to let go. But Allah always answers—sometimes in ways we don’t expect. So, make du’ā with confidence, release it with trust, and let your heart find peace in His wisdom.

One of the most important aspects of fasting in Ramadhān is sincerity (ikhlas). Our fasting should be solely for Allah, not for self-admiration or comparison with others. True sincerity means focusing on our personal journey, worshiping at our own pace, and seeking Allah’s pleasure alone—not validation from people. Even the smallest sincere act is more beloved to Allah than a large insincere one.

Many of us know about Allah, but do we truly know Him? This Ramadhān, take the time to build a deeper connection with Allah by learning His names and attributes, recognising His presence in your life, and speaking to Him from the heart. The more you know Him, the more you will love Him—and in that love, you will find peace, fulfilment, and true closeness to your Creator.

Ramadhān brings a unique calmness that allows us to detach from distractions and reconnect with what truly matters. In this stillness, we find clarity—clarity in our thoughts, our hearts, and our connection with Allah. It is in this state that we realign with our purpose, experience spiritual awakenings, and feel a deeper pull towards prayer, Qur’ān, and sincere du’ā. Embrace this calmness, nurture it, and let it guide you closer to Allah.

Allah’s mercy is infinite, and so are His rewards. A single act of goodness—whether sharing knowledge, encouraging dhikr, or teaching someone a simple du’ā—can multiply beyond measure. Each time it is passed on, your reward continues to grow, possibly for generations. With Allah, nothing is ever lost, and what is done for His sake lasts forever. Keep spreading goodness—you never know how far it will reach.

Often, we ask Allah for specific blessings—wealth, success, love—without realising they may come with hardships. This is why the Prophet ﷺ emphasised adding ‘Āfiyah to our du’ās. ‘Āfiyah means complete well-being—protection from harm, ease without hardship, and blessings without trials. By simply saying, “O Allah, grant me [blessing] with ‘Āfiyah,” we ensure that what we receive is truly good for us, both in this world and the Hereafter. It is a small yet powerful habit that brings immense barakah, peace, and ease into our lives.