Desperation creates resistance, pushing away what we seek. True surrender, however, aligns us with divine wisdom, allowing what is meant for us to come effortlessly. Trust in Allah, let go of panic, and embrace the peace that comes with surrender.

We often assume we know someone’s story based on what we see, but most times, we’re far from the truth. Silence isn’t always sadness, solitude isn’t loneliness, and growth doesn’t have to be loud. Instead of assuming, let’s choose curiosity, understanding, and genuine connection—because reality is rarely what we imagine it to be.

As the blessed night of the 15th of Sha’bān approaches, take a moment to cleanse your heart from grudges and resentment. This is a night of divine mercy, where Allah forgives all except those who hold onto malice. Let go of the past, forgive others, and open your heart to Allah’s boundless forgiveness. A pure heart invites peace, healing, and a deeper connection with your Creator. Don’t let negativity hold you back—embrace this opportunity for spiritual renewal.

When you strengthen your connection with Allah, your heart becomes more attuned to His guidance. Intuition is not just a feeling—it’s a gift from Him, a way He protects and directs you. A purified heart recognises His signs, guiding you toward what benefits your soul and away from harm. Trust in Allah, pay attention to the signs He sends, and know that when you rely on Him, you are never alone.

Asking Allah for forgiveness is more than just seeking forgiveness—it is a way to reconnect with Him, renew your faith, and invite His mercy into your life. Istighfār cleanses the heart, removes burdens, and unlocks blessings. No matter how far you’ve strayed, Allah’s doors of mercy remain open. Keep turning back to Him.

The people of Tarim had a beautiful tradition of writing 30 du’ās—one for each night of Ramadhān—and focusing on them, especially at iftar when Du’ās are most accepted. Start your list today, adding to it as you go, so when Ramadhān begins, you’re prepared to make intentional, heartfelt Du’ās. Be specific, balance worldly and spiritual requests, and include others in your prayers. This simple habit can bring immense barakah and deepen your connection with Allah. May this Ramadhān be a month of answered du’ās and transformation.

Every Prophet and friend of Allah faced trials, not as punishment, but as a means of protection and purification. Hardships humble the heart, detach us from illusions, and turn us back to Allah with sincerity. Instead of resisting adversity, embrace it as a divine gift—a reminder that Allah is guiding you toward Him. Through every struggle, your soul is being refined, your faith strengthened, and your heart drawn closer to its true purpose. What greater blessing could there be?

One of the most beautiful aspects of our relationship with Allah is the ability to ask Him for anything, knowing He is always listening. Unlike humans, He loves to be asked, and Du’ā itself is an act of worship. Whether He grants or withholds, it is always out of His mercy and wisdom.

Through Du’ā, we strengthen our bond with Him, nurture trust in His plans, and develop patience and gratitude. Over time, this deepens our love for Allah and brings true contentment. So never stop asking—every prayer is a step closer to Him.

In many cultures, asking for anything—whether help, support, or even something small—is often seen as wrong, making us feel guilty or ashamed. This mindset can affect our relationship with Allah, making it difficult to turn to Him in need. But Islam teaches us that asking Allah is not just allowed; it is an act of worship. We must unlearn the belief that seeking help is wrong and embrace the mercy of the One who loves to be called upon.

Unprocessed pain—abuse, neglect, or feeling unheard—does not fade; it settles in the body, manifesting as illness, fatigue, and emotional struggles. Suppressed emotions become physical symptoms, disrupting well-being. Healing begins with safe expression—crying, speaking, and being heard. True strength lies in release, not silence.

For those who love her, the greatest gift is holding space for her healing. When a woman is free to express, she not only heals but transforms generations.

Our perception of life—whether pessimistic, realistic, or optimistic—is deeply tied to our knowledge of Allah.

• If you don’t know Allah, you will be a pessimist—seeing only hardship, fearing uncertainty, and feeling hopeless.

• If you acknowledge Allah, you will be a realist—accepting life’s ups and downs with patience, knowing that trials are part of His plan.

• If you truly know Allah, you will be an optimist—trusting His wisdom, finding peace in every moment, and believing in His mercy.

True faith transforms our perspective, allowing us to navigate life with clarity, strength, and unwavering hope.